Engagement Ring Etiquette: Do’s and Don’ts

Engagement is a symbol of the union of emotional involvement. Likewise, finding the right engagement rings is a financial investment. 

One should focus on considerations beyond aesthetics and following proper etiquette for buying and maintaining the beauty of these pieces. 

From understanding the importance of the 4Cs to the significance of regular maintenance, this article will explore the do’s and don’ts to ensure your engagement ring remains a lasting treasure. 

Let’s start. 

Engagement Ring Do’s

Research the 4Cs

If you’re considering getting a diamond ring for your engagement, familiarize yourself with the four Cs of diamonds: cut, color, clarity, and carat weight. 

The cut affects its sparkle; color influences its visual appeal; clarity speaks to its purity, and carat weight determines its size. 

These factors will collectively guide your decision in choosing your engagement ring to ensure you select a diamond with quality standards and your personal preferences.

Consider other options

Although 87% of couples choose diamonds for their engagement rings, some still want unique engagement rings that are out of the ordinary. You can have vintage engagement rings for a timeless and meaningful choice. 

And don’t forget gold, either white or yellow. White gold engagement rings were picked by 48% of individuals, 16% chose yellow gold, 13% chose rose gold, and 13% chose platinum as ring metals

Talk to your partner.

Before anything else, of course, take the time to understand what kind of designs or styles your partner likes. It’s a thoughtful and genuine effort that will increase the likelihood of selecting a ring that both of you will love to see every day on your fingers.

Get the correct ring size.

For comfort and security, your engagement ring should perfectly fit your finger. You can use ring size guides online or your frequently worn ring for size reference. 

If you want to get accurate sizing, our team at JF Jones Jewelers has professionals ready to get your measurements when you visit our store. 

Obtain insurance and appraisal.

Secure insurance for your engagement ring to safeguard against damage, loss, or theft. This helps ensure that you can recover the financial value of the ring in case of unforeseen circumstances, no matter how careful you are. 

Have your engagement ring appraised regularly, ideally every five years, as the value of diamonds and precious metals can fluctuate over time. 

Regular appraisals help keep the insurance coverage up to date, reflecting the current market value of the ring and ensuring that you are adequately protected financially.

Get a professional pre-wedding ring cleaning.

Schedule a cleaning session with JF Jones Jewelers before the special day. Trust your engagement rings to our expertise to ensure they look their absolute best.

Engagement Ring Don’ts

Don’t rush the process.

You should not make a hasty decision when selecting an engagement ring. Take your time deciding which designs, metals, and styles to choose, as rushing might result in later regrets. 

Careful planning allows for consideration of various factors such as budget, preferences, and personal meaning for a more thoughtful and meaningful choice. 

Avoid public ring removal.

Refrain from removing the ring in areas outside your private or secure spaces. This minimizes the risk of misplacing or accidentally dropping the ring in public places where it could be lost or damaged.  

Nearly 24% of men reported losing their wedding rings, while the figure was lower for engagement rings for women, at 14.3%. This is why you should have the right fit for your engagement ring. As long as you don’t take it off in public, you can avoid contributing to the percentage of this report.

Avoid going beyond your means.

Over 20% of couples spend over $10,000 on a ring in fact 2023 average engagement ring was $6000 according to a study done by the knot. While it’s natural to want to give your partner the best, avoid financial strain by setting a budget and sticking to it. Responsible financial decisions contribute to a stable and secure future together. 
Be mindful of your financial limits when buying an engagement ring. It’s best to avoid comparing your ring to others. While trends are appealing, they come and go; focus on the symbolic value an engagement ring holds in your relationship more than anything.

Don’t forget regular maintenance.

After the proposal, have regular maintenance of the ring. Schedule periodic check-ups to ensure the setting (the way the diamond is held in place) is secure, the stone (diamond or gem), and the prong that holds the stone stays in excellent condition. 

It’s advisable to do this 1 to 2 times per year, adjusting the frequency based on the level of wear and tear your jewelry experiences. 

Consider scheduling a consultation or cleaning service with JF Jones Jewelers for expert guidance on maintaining your engagement ring. 

Avoid touching the stone.

As much as you admire the beauty of your engagement ring, avoid touching the central stone to prevent the buildup of dust, dirt, and body oil, which can affect its appearance. 

You can grab the band on either side of the stone when putting on or removing the ring to avoid haziness or cloudiness. 

Practice gently removing it from the base to prevent potential damage to the center diamond or gemstone.  

Additional Unique Engagement Ring Care

• Wear the engagement ring as the last step in your morning routine and the first item to be removed in the evening to minimize exposure to potential damage. 
• Exercise caution and avoid wearing the ring during activities that could expose it to harsh chemicals or impact. 
• Diamonds can despite being hard, so be cautious not to knock the ring against other hard materials. They are also sensitive to oil. Refrain from wearing the ring when applying lotions or beauty products, as exposure to certain chemicals or substances in these products could affect its appearance. 
• Store the engagement rings for women and men in a designated ring box after wearing them to prevent dust accumulation and potential scratches.

Final Words

Every detail matters in taking care of your engagement rings. It should last time like your love story. 

From at-home care to professional maintenance, we hope these tips will keep them looking beautiful and secure. 

Contact us today and stay updated on our engagement ring guide.